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Virtual Coaching Support Community for Men
in Sexual Recovery

Helping men break free from sexual compulsions, pornography abuse, and intimacy struggles with structure and support.

How to Know if Porn is Negatively Affecting Your Life

Porn is free, easy, and accessible. This reality has driven an alarming surge in abuse, creating a widespread crisis that is actively damaging families, destroying careers, and severely weakening your quality of life.

Learn five vital red flags that indicate pornography is no longer a choice, but a genuine problem in your life.

RED FLAG #1

I am consuming more porn or taking greater risks to watch porn.

RED FLAG #2

I told myself countless times I would stop.

RED FLAG #3

I have noticed sexual dysfunction and damage to my relationship.

RED FLAG #4

I have to look at different types of porn to get aroused.

RED FLAG #5

I feel shame about my consumption that affects every area of my life.

Call for Immediate Contact: 503.419.6279

Porn is stealing more than your time.

It chips away at relationships, careers, confidence, and the ability to feel real intimacy. Many men think it’s just a private habit—but it quietly affects every part of life.

Careers
Stalled

Missed promotions and opportunities at work

Relationships
Strained

Distance, conflict, or broken trust at home

Confidence
Lost

Erosion of self-respect and personal integrity

Emotions
Numbed

Disconnection from joy, love, and real intimacy

It doesn’t have to stay this way.

By facing the problem head-on and taking the first step, men can reclaim purpose, restore relationships, and build the life they were meant to live.

Learn more about what the experts are saying about the challenges young men face today.

Richard Reeves

Richard Reeves joins Theo Von to discuss why men struggle to find purpose today, how mentors can be life-changing, and how men and women communicate differently.

Scott Galloway

Scott Galloway joins Theo Von in NYC to discuss men’s challenges, their impact on women, balancing life and work, and why young people need financial help.

Intensive Program

For men ready to stop pornography abuse and compulsive sexual behaviors and rebuild intimacy and trust through structured coaching, groups and accountability.

Starting at

$499

/ month

Includes:

One on one coaching from men who are in long term recovery
Structure groups and accountability to break free from porn
Tools to restore intimacy and rebuild trust
Valor app with curriculum, tips, and community
Family updates and support as needed

How It Works

One clear process to help men move from secrecy and shame to structure, accountability, and freedom.

01. Coaching

Learn practical tools to handle urges, uncover root causes, and practice new ways of living.

02. Men’s Groups

Healing happens in community. In brotherhood, men find honesty, accountability, and encouragement.

03. Daily Accountability

Lasting change comes from daily action. We provide structure to help new habits stick.

04. Technology & App

With filters, daily inspiration, and a dedicated app community, men have resources at their fingertips every day.

We Are you

Every Valor coach has walked this road. We know the secrecy, shame, and exhaustion because we’ve lived it. And we know freedom, connection, and hope are possible, because we’ve found them.

Steven Wolt

Founder & CEO

Steve is a healthcare entrepreneur and certified coach whose own recovery from sex and porn addiction inspired him to create Valor.

With leadership roles at Freedom Institute and Veritus, he works to break stigma and guide men toward lasting freedom.

Ian Sears

Coach

With 30 years in recovery, Ian has walked alongside men from every background.

He combines lived experience with expertise as a certified meditation teacher, helping men find grounding, presence, and resilience.

Ron Garfield

Coach

In recovery since 2012, Ron left a long career in entertainment to dedicate himself to coaching.

He blends recovery insight with executive leadership coaching, guiding men to rediscover integrity, purpose, and self-worth.

Gavin Bahadur

Coach

A physician and surgeon in recovery since 2010, Gavin brings both medical expertise and personal experience.

He helps men face their toughest challenges with honesty, perspective, and hope for a healthier future.

Our Founder

Steven Wolt, Founder & CEO, created Valor Recovery out of his own journey through sex and porn addiction.

With years of personal recovery and leadership in behavioral health, Steve’s mission is to break the stigma, provide real solutions, and help men find freedom with courage and integrity.

Real Stories of Change

Pornography ruled my life. I was heading for total ruin. Through Valor, I’ve met incredible men on the same recovery journey. It ended the isolation, keeping me addicted. My life and marriage have never been in a better place.

Aaron

Since joining Valor I have made unprecedented strides in my marriage, friendships, work and overall joy. It is truly unique in that it combines pragmatic strategies with a tight-knit, trustworthy community to combat addiction.

Michael

I was found cheating - weighted down in shame, guilt and lies. I committed to Valor’s program and I’ve learned tools to stop acting out, but more importantly, how to be a healthy man with healthy male friends.

John

Why Men Choose Valor

Who is Valor for?

Valor is for men struggling with compulsive sexual behaviors, pornography abuse, or intimacy challenges who are ready to make a change.

Whether you’re a working professional, a student, or anywhere in between, Valor offers structure, accountability, and guidance to help you take your next step toward freedom.

Is this therapy or treatment?

No. Valor is not clinical therapy—it’s a structured coaching and community-based program. Our coaches are men in long-term recovery who understand exactly what you’re going through.

They combine lived experience with proven strategies so you’re never walking this road alone.

Do I need to be religious or married?

Not at all. Valor welcomes men from every background and stage of life. You don’t have to be religious, married, or fit a certain profile.

The only requirement is your willingness to commit to the process of recovery and growth.

Is participation confidential?

Yes. Your privacy is a top priority. Valor is a safe environment where men can speak honestly and openly without judgment.

Everything shared in coaching and groups stays within Valor.

What does the program cost?

The Intensive Program starts at $499 per month and offers personalized coaching, group sessions, and daily accountability.

How do I get started?

It begins with a free consultation. We’ll learn more about your story, explain the program options, and help you choose the path that fits your needs.

From there, you’ll be introduced to your coach and community and begin building new habits on day one.

Take the First Step Today

Call for Immediate Contact: 503.419.6279

You don’t have to keep living in secrecy or shame. A new way of life starts with one choice.

First Name

Last Name

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How often do you watch porn?

How long have you struggled with pornography use or related habits?

Has your pornography use affected your relationship(s)?

What is your main goal right now?

How ready are you to make a change today?

Message

I confirm that I am the person seeking confidential virtual coaching for compulsive sexual behaviors and am ready to commit to the process of recovery and growth.

Call for Immediate Contact: 503.419.6279

Virtual Coaching Support Community for Men
in Sexual Recovery